My oldest child attended a preschool housed in a beautiful old Victorian. The reason I enrolled him at the school was primarily because I liked the space. Inside the space, Art, Beauty and Order reigned. It was love at first sight. Glass jars lining the walls, each with a different color of hand-dyed yarn inside. Light tables with glass beads scattered across their tops. A fireplace upon which families were invited to place framed photos. Mobiles composed of branches and twigs some twisted with ribbons and bells and shells hanging from the ceiling. And there were even rules barring the Stupid toys, licensed merchandise, and plastic of all varieties from entering The Space. (I'll kvetch about the snack basket another post.)
The nursery/preschool/pre-k/kindergarten is much more a school than a daycare, and because they know this about themselves, they charge an arm and leg for "before and aftercare." They cater mostly to families with the ability to flex around a shorter school day, which leaves me, the full-time-work-outside-the-home-mother with my nose pressed against the true divided lights, gazing in with desperate longing. But, the standing outside, looking in situation is a sad math fact at this point. Tuition rates + three children = my second-born is unable to attend. It tugs at me in the worst sort of way as I would like nothing more than to give him that unique "Reggio Emilia" experience.
At the core of a true Reggio Emilia program is art studio. There are no predetermined projects in this space. In the spring when the local PS is gearing up for each and every student to cut a yellow tulip out of construction paper, "My School" students are completing ink sketches daubed with pale watercolors to post at the end-of-year art exhibition. (Disclaimer: As an advocate of the public schools, I feel compelled to say public schools are tasked with teaching All children. And we should celebrate the fact that they do in fact take on such a monumental challenge. The Reggio Emilia school only has to teach those who pay, those who choose Harvest Celebrations over Thanksgiving Feasts.)
From Sarah:
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I'm always inspired by the child-art on display. I look forward to seeing the new space (someday).
On William Morris, I try to remind myself of his advice every time I clean. Sadly, my children's definition of beauty and utility is a bit broader than mine.
From Ali:
ReplyDeleteI wish I had a dining room to follow your lead. Although, I'd be the only one to use it. Owen maybe would play along, but Riley's "judge" has arrived and doesn't like to draw anymore. The disappointment of nine.
I love how you don't just love your problem and talk about it, you DO something about it. That's what missing with some people I know.
Great idea! You could direct one of those programs if you wanted to, Carole! Wish we could stop by the studio. In that vein, we have turned our couchless living room into "the music room!" And I give the piano lessons! My hope for our dining room is to be a homework and craft space. Perhaps I will aim slightly higher. Nice post.
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